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One in four British couples no longer sleep in the same bed due to the stress of modern life

Almost a quarter of British couples NO LONGER sleep in the same bed as their partner, according to a new study. Researchers took an in depth look into the bedtime habits of the nation’s couples and discovered the stresses and strains of modern life have resulted in 24 percent of Britons now regularly sleeping separately […]

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Almost a quarter of British couples NO LONGER sleep in the same bed as their partner, according to a new study.

Researchers took an in depth look into the bedtime habits of the nation’s couples and discovered the stresses and strains of modern life have resulted in 24 percent of Britons now regularly sleeping separately to their other half.

Couples seem to find sleeping together increasingly intolerable
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According to the research by Bensons for Beds, letting children into the marital bed is a major issue, with the average parent allowing their child into bed with them FIVE times a month on average.

A further 16 percent said when a child invariably ends up in the marital bed, one of the adults ends up having to sleep somewhere else.

In fact, nearly one in ten (8 percent) of the 2,000 couples polled said they were no longer as close to their partner since they have stopped sleeping together, while a further 28 percent said their sex life had suffered.

An embarrassed 31 percent admitted they lie to friends and family because they are too ashamed to say they no longer share a bed with their partner.

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Many couples are too embarrassed to say that they no longer regularly share a double bed[/caption]

Henry Swift, Chief Customer Officer at Bensons for Beds, which commissioned the study said, “Juggling long work hours and children is difficult and it’s no wonder that the majority of Brits are no longer sharing a bed or spending intimate time with their partners.

“The fact that nearly 2 in 10 people are relocating themselves to the spare room is astonishing. Given we spend one third of our time in bed, getting a good night’s sleep with your partner is a key component to a healthy life and happiness.”

The study was commissioned by Bensons for Beds to celebrating winning the coveted Bed Retailer of the Year award at the National Bed Federation Bed Industry Awards.

According to the data, 25 percent admit they sleep in a different bed because their partner snores, while 19 percent of the nation claimed their partner regularly falls asleep in front of the TV and doesn’t ever make it to bed.

Even rock stars aren’t above admitting sometimes two beds are best

38 percent say they sleep in another bed due to arguments or problems in the relationship, while a considerate 14 percent say they sleep in a different bed as they have to get up earlier for work than their partner and they don’t want to disturb them, while 11 percent say they go their separate ways at bedtime if one of them has come home a little worse for wear after a night out with friends.

And according to the data we will sleep in separate rooms three times a year on average following a bust up with our partner.

Psychologist and relationship expert Donna Dawson, commented on the research: “The results of this research are quite concerning. The reality is that partners risk drifting apart emotionally if they sleep apart physically.

“The intimacy of being a couple is eroded by being on your own at night. There is also the risk that a couple’s sex life suffers, as you are no longer stimulated by the physical presence of your partner.

“It is no great surprise that having children can distract and tire parents, so sharing a bed with a child should be an absolute last resort and couples should try and ensure this does not become habitual.

“In today’s stressful world, it is important that couples guard against the things that work to keep them apart, and consciously strive to find more ways to spend time together – and sharing a comfortable bed at the end of a long, hard day is one of the most important ways.”

For 51 percent of us the sofa is where we go, when not cuddled up to our partner, while 34 percent of those who no longer spend the night with their partner, the spare room has now become the place where they sleep.

17 percent admit they have even moved some of their belongings into the spare room because they spend so much time sleeping there.

And when push comes to shove, 60 percent of us admit that we actually prefer to sleep on our own.

57 percent of those surveyed said they could be tempted to get back into the same room as their partner if their bed was more comfortable.

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These entirely innocent snaps could be confused for something very rude indeed

THESE photos will prove whether you have a dirty mind or not. On the face of it they show a selection of innocent everyday items including an avocado, cheesy snacks, a child’s doodle and a plume of smoke. But, take a closer look and they are transformed into something altogether smuttier. Unfortunate sculptures resemble male […]

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THESE photos will prove whether you have a dirty mind or not.

On the face of it they show a selection of innocent everyday items including an avocado, cheesy snacks, a child’s doodle and a plume of smoke.

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Female vaper is caught at the exact moment she exhales an unfortunate-looking plume of smoke[/caption]

But, take a closer look and they are transformed into something altogether smuttier.

Unfortunate sculptures resemble male members while balloons and butter echo breasts.

Drinks machines and puddles also appear in the hilarious gallery.

Now, stop sniggering at the back.

Let’s Not Drink To That

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The design of this drinks machine bears a rather regrettable resemblance[/caption]

Pot On Earth?

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After a rain shower this pot hole takes on a whole new aspect[/caption]

What The Cluck?

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Whoever snapped this pair of eggs must have had the breast of intentions[/caption]

Avin’ None Of That

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You can see just a glimpse of the green flesh of this avocado in the snapshot[/caption]

Tomato Sauce

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This extraordinary looking tomato is unlikely to make it to supermarket shelves any time soon[/caption]

Fancy A Trunk-Up?

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This tree hollow has developed in an unfortunate place[/caption]

Meat And Two Veg

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This pea balancing on the top of a green bean would be enough to get any schoolboy sniggering[/caption]

Is That A Sea Or A B Cup?

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This underwater sight is chest amazing[/caption]

Bed Alert

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This mattress is won’t get the bum’s rush[/caption]

Wot’sthat?

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This cheesy snack looks like it could prove a bit of a mouthful[/caption]

Rudin

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This bulbous sculpture is a bit of a flop[/caption]

Cheesus

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This cheesy snack is not likely to go down well[/caption]

Breast Efforts

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The odd shape of this pink balloon is enough to spark a cheeky snigger[/caption]

Fro-go zone

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Ice poking out of the top of these frozen drinks makes for an unfortunate effect[/caption]

Monster Mistake

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This kids’ creation is a nightmarish vision[/caption]

For Butter Or Worse

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This pack of butter makes a bit of a boob[/caption]


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Parents share harrowing last photo of son, 6, hours before he died in hospital of meningitis to raise awareness

THE parents of a six-year-old boy who died from meningitis have released the harrowing last photo of their son in a bid to raise awareness. Oliver Hall died less than 24 hours after first showing signs he was ill. Despite the best efforts of doctors and nurses who “did everything they could” to save Oliver’s […]

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THE parents of a six-year-old boy who died from meningitis have released the harrowing last photo of their son in a bid to raise awareness.

Oliver Hall died less than 24 hours after first showing signs he was ill.

Oliver Hall died of meningitis less than 24 hours after falling ill in October this year
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Despite the best efforts of doctors and nurses who “did everything they could” to save Oliver’s life, the infection overwhelmed his body.

He passed away at the James Paget University Hospital in Norfolk on October 24.

At the age of six, Oliver was not vaccinated against the strain that cut his young life short – meningitis B.

In September 2015, the MenB vaccine was added to the NHS childhood immuisation programme, but only for babies under the age of 12 months.

The six-year-old's parents are calling for the MenB vaccine to be made available on the NHS to all children
The six-year-old’s parents are calling for the MenB vaccine to be made available on the NHS to all children
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Now, Oliver’s heartbroken parents are urging the Government to make it available free of charge to all kids.

Bryan and Georgie Hall, from Halesworth in Suffolk, have joined forces with Meningitis Now to raise awareness.

Mrs Hall said: “Oliver achieved so much in his short life. He will always be remembered.”

Now the couple are calling on health secretary Jeremy Hunt and the Government to widen the vaccination programme to protect more children.

The MenB jab was made available in September 2015 to kids under the age of one, but parents of older kids have to pay to have the jab
The MenB jab was made available in September 2015 to kids under the age of one, but parents of older kids have to pay to have the jab
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“The Government are saying it’s not cost effective to vaccinate more children against this disease.

“Meningitis Now are arguing that point.

“Our main goal is to help them get this vaccination rolled out to more children.”


MORE THAN A RASH What is meningitis, how can you catch it and what are the signs and symptoms of the deadly disease?


The charity argues that a vaccine for all would be cost-effective, when compared with the cost of treating the devastating disease.

Meningitis can affect people of all ages, but is more common in babies and young children.

Teenagers and young adults – particularly university students – are also at high risk, because they live and socialise close together, raising the risk of the disease spreading quickly.

On Friday, the Meningitis Research Foundation urged people to be alert to the signs and symptoms of the disease, as cases of the deadly infection are expected to treble over the festive period.

Oliver's parents have set up a fundraising website in their son's name, raising money for Meningitis Now
Oliver’s parents have set up a fundraising website in their son’s name, raising money for Meningitis Now
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There are five main groups of meningitis, but meningococcal B (Men B) is the most common, responsible for 55 per cent of cases of meningococcal meningitis.

While the MenB jab is available free of charge on the NHS to babies, it can be bought privately.

Boots and other pharmacies offer the two-dose course at a cost of £220.

Last month Mrs Hall met MPs and other families, who have lost their children to meningitis.

“On the back of this meeting, they are looking into setting up a working party with the main aim of looking into the cost effectiveness of the vaccine and rolling it out to children.

“That is a positive step.”

The couple set up the Oliver Hall Forever Fund tribute website, to raise money for Meningitis Now.

So far more than £4,000 has been raised in Oliver’s memory.

His mum added: “To see that total going up makes us feel that Oliver’s life was not in vain.”


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Brit musician Dave Sinclair found dead aged 31 after suffering heart attack

MUSICIAN Dave Sinclair has died after suffering a heart attack. The 31-year-old was found at his home, with tributes since pouring in for the legendary frontman who died last week. The singer’s mother Jo paid tribute to her “spark of life” son, telling Hull Daily Mail: “From the day he was born I can’t explain […]

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MUSICIAN Dave Sinclair has died after suffering a heart attack.

The 31-year-old was found at his home, with tributes since pouring in for the legendary frontman who died last week.

Tributes for Dave Sinclair have flowed after he was found dead
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The singer’s mother Jo paid tribute to her “spark of life” son, telling Hull Daily Mail: “From the day he was born I can’t explain the feeling he gave me.”

Dave, whose nickname was Cardo, played in bands including Mother and GST Cardinals.

Family and friends gathered at the Queens Pub in Hull to pay tribute to Dave, remembering the singer as a “rockstar”.

Friend Grant Dobbs said: “He was a rock and roll star. You had to meet the man for him to have such an effect on you.

The 31-year-old had only played his last gig two weeks ago
The 31-year-old had only played his last gig two weeks ago
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“He had the Cardo-effect. He’s touched everybody’s hearts in here. He never had a bad word to say about anyone.”

He said the young musician had only played his last gig two weeks ago before suffering the fatal heart attack.

Dave was found at his home in Dunswell on Tuesday.

Friends said that he was a true entertainer, on and off the stage.

The Polar Bear will be holding a tribute night to Dave on Friday.

Four members of The Paddingtons will perform a Strokes tribute act in honour of their friend.

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